10 years afterward, ahha kira umur aku dah 30-an lah kan. Jika diizinkan aku dah bersuami dan berkeluarga lah, so of course la aku berada dirumah bersama keluarga tersayang. First and foremost, aku harap in another 10 years aku jadi wanita yang solehah, taat padaNya, suami dan ibubapa. Cerita pasal future ni seram jugak, hanya mampu berserah je. Biar Dia yang menentukan segalanya. Aku mampu berdoa supaya dipermudahkan urusan sama ada didunia mahupun akhirat.

Between this 10 years aku nak sampaikan hajat:

1) Habis kan degree ni haa. Maw cari keja, tak larat dah nak tgk buku. Geram jee tgk kawan2 dah keja. Dapat beli itu ini kat parents masing2. Indahnya perasaan bila dapat tgk parents kita gembira. SubhanAllah. Only Allah knows how to describe the feels. InsyaAllah, akan ku tunggu saat manis tuh.

2) Bila dah habis degree, of course dah boleh kawin. So, cakap pasal kawin ni ketaq lutut gak lahh. Jodoh kan, only Allah knows well. InsyaAllah, utk mencari syurga yang abadi aku akan setia dan taat pada suami ku kelak. Mencari keredhaan dan keberkatan didunia dan diakhirat bersama suami, mesti indah di alam perkahwinan. :) *blink2 mata sambil taip

3) Jika diizinkan, aku nak jugak kumpul duit pergi umrah. Tempat paling suci, sayu plak rasa bila cakap pasal tempat suci Allah ni. Kadang-kadang terasa jugak, layak ke aku nak pegi ke tempat suci Dia. SubhanAllah. :( okay, stop sini.

4) Yes, sudah berkerjaya, berumahtangga. Yang penting, aku berharap Allah akan memberkati segala niat dan urusan aku. Jika ada halangan dan dugaan, insyaAllah akan aku cari jalan penyelesaian. Sebab aku yakin disetiap dugaanNya pasti setimpal dengan kekuatan ku utk menghadapinya. :)

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Assalammualaikum readers.

Kali ni, aku nak tulis sikit pasal orang kita (melayu). Terdetik hati aku rasa sedih, kecil hati. Biar aku luah kat sini, kot kot ada diantara kita ni penah macam tuh. Harap sama-sama kita berubah jadi lebih baik ogeh. Hurm, ye aku bukan perempuan bertudung. Ye, rambut aku berwarna, but now dah hitam. Setakat pakai pegi kelas, pegi kolej. Bukan bermakna aku ni bukan orang Islam, tak tawu bagi salam. Sedih nye, nak tulis. T_T
Aku rasa tak perlu nak tulis, kalau solat aku tak tinggal, kalau aku pandai mengaji, kalau aku tahu hukum hakam agama, perlu ke aku nak cakap semua tuh? Apapun, aku masih perlu belajar tentang agama Islam. Bagi aku belajar agama Islam ni takkan habis sampai mati. Dear, dont judge people by its look. Sedih lah ada orang mcm ni, pandang rendah pada perempuan yang tak bertudung. Bukan semua orang yang bertudung ni jahil agama. Aku bagi salam, ko boleh delete post aku. Kenapa? Ko malu sbb berkawan dgn orang yg tak bertudung ke?
Aku tak nak aib kan orang yang bertudung tapi biar kita cantik diluar dan didalam. Aku sangat menghormati perempuan yang bertudung, lelaki yang baik, beriman. Aku sentiasa rasa rendah diri pada orang-orang mcm ni, bagi aku orang-orang mcm ni sangat mulia. Aku sentiasa berdoa agar ditempat bersama-sama orang yang soleh dan solehah. Biarlah aku rasa rendah diri dari bermegah diri. Wahai kawan-kawan, semoga kita bukan digolongan ini. Biar lah berbuat baik bukan pada mata manusia, tapi dimata Allah.

Kita sama-sama belajar, semoga sama-sama kita diberkati dan diredhai. InsyaAllah.



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Ahha, talking bout status or in other way is relationship thingy, i've decided not to talk about it.
Yes, i am 23 and should have one. Jodoh, ajal dan maut ditentukan olehNya. And i am working on it. Bukan setakat berserah pada takdir, tapi kita perlu berusaha untuk mencari keberkatanNya.
Saya dah melihat pelbagai ragam dan perangai manusia. Cinta yang kekal adalah cinta yang jujur, ikhlas dan kerana Allah.
Ini bukannya masa utk saya cari seorang teman lelaki tapi mencari seorang suami yang boleh meng'imamkan solat saya, menjadi seorang ayah yang penyayang terhadap anak-anak nya, dan seorang anak yang sanggup berkorban utk mama dan abah saya. InsyaAllah. Saya bukan perempuan yang sempurna, masih ada banyak benda yg perlu diperbetulkan. InsyaAllah, dari masa ke semasa saya belajar dari kesilapan saya.

Ciri suami Awesome, mengikut Ustaz Azhar Idrus

1. Solat fardhu cukup 5 waktu.

2. Ada kerja gaji RM800-1500 ke atas, boleh bayar rumah sewa,
boleh beli beras, boleh isi minyak, boleh antar ke tempat keje. Nafkah zahir boleh bagi, bukan nafkah batin je tau.

3. Ada kenderaan: moto kapcai dah cantek. honda EX5 orait sangat la tu dengan 2 helmet. Basikal pun boleh, tapi penat kayuh kalau dari Bangsar ke KLIA. Sebaik-baiknya kereta, sebab nanti nak bawa isteri yang mengandung ke klinik setiap bulan.

4. Lulus ujian fardhu ‘ain sekolah rendah. Maknanya boleh mandi wajib dengan baik dan boleh ajar isteri mandi wajib dengan betul,
apatah lagi mandi-mandi yang lain.

5. Boleh baca al-Quran dan boleh mengajar al-Quran walaupun setakat “Alif Ba’ Ta’” sampai Surah “Iqra’ Bismirabbikallazi Khalaq.”

6. Jenis lurus, baik & hati baik, tak menipu. Tadelah sampai menipu kata nak pergi Mydin tapi pergi mengorat jiran taman sebelah.

7. Dia paham kamu, kamu paham dia. Paham jiwo gitu. Serasi bersama. Berbeza tapi boleh masuk.

8. Gedik joget-joget pun depan bini dan anak-anak je. Depan orang lain sopan santun gitu.

9. Jenis tak cemburu buta sangat. Cemburu macam ni ok, “Ehemm..ramainya kawan laki kat opis.. Jangan sampai lupa abang
taw..”

10. Belajar takat PMR je pun takpe, janji cara dia fikir tu matang dari yang belajar PhD.

11. Kalau dia jenis diam tak delah sampai orang kata tak bergaul dengan manusia lain. Kalau dia banyak bercakap pun tadelah sampai dia mengata-ngata orang lain.

12. Malas juga ke masjid, tapi dia pergi gak dalam sehari tu 2 kali sekurang-kurangnya Maghrib danIsyak.

13. Walaupun tak kerap ke kuliah agama, tapi bila tengok Youtube Ustaz Azhar Idrus ngajar tu sampai terlupa nak tengok bola. Jika da kuliah di masjid muka dialah ada di antara orang-orang kampung.

14. Boleh susah senang bersama. Kalau isteri nangis, dia tolong riba isteri dan tenangkan. Kalau isteri sakit, dia tolong jaga dari malam sampai pagi.

15. Jenis senyum sokmo.

16. Tak tengok sangat awek cuns, duk tengok bini dia je walaupn bini dia tak cuns (Tak cun tak pe, boleh tutup lampu).


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New semester, short semester

Mandarin 1, which is basic mandarin. Dah belajar numbers, year, month, time. Starting learn basic writing in chinese. Susah lah jugak, but glad dah ada basic sket. Target A for this. I dont know why, but i love language instead of english la. Before this belajar japanese, totally hard but extremely fun.

Jīntiān shì xīngqí wǔ
Today is friday
:)

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Berita gempa bumi di Acheh dah tersebar luas. Dengan gegaran 8.9 magnitud.
Gegaran yang dapat dirasai di kawasan Pulau PInang, Kedah, Perak dan Selangor.
Adakah Tsunami akan kembali? Wa'Allahualam.

Sama-sama kita berdoa, rakan rakan.
Mohon kepadaNya, semoga semuanya selamat.
Apapun yang berlaku, ada hikmah nya.
Setiap dugaan yang Allah beri, mungkin membawa kita ke jalanNya.

Terima kasih Ya Allah, diatas nikmat yang Kau kurniakan kepadaku.
Salam Isya' dari saya.

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Alhamdulillah kak aly, :)
Congratulation, and become hot mama!
Hilang sudah nervous saya, habis seram sejuk kaki tangan.

Auwwww, cant wait to see u cute handsome baby boy.

Cant wait to smell baby from heaven.
Boley amik buat perfume takk?
:3



Salam Haidar, welcome to the world. :)

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GOOD ADVICES FOR GIRLS:

1. A man won't let go if he really loves you.
- Do not hold on to someone who has let go of you. He does not love you and does not value having you. Believe me, he will not let go if he really loves you. There is another reason he is not willing to tell.

2. Do not look for reasons why he ended the relationship.
- There is only one reason why he ended your relationship. He just does not love you. Do not waste your time thinking of reasons or what you should have done. Move on and be open to a man who will truly love you.

3. Do not get hang up on your past.
- Do not nag or distrust your current boyfriend just because your ex hurt you. Do not treat him or the relationship the same way. Do not compare. He will not react the same way as your ex. Do not be worried that your simple mistakes will cause him to look for another girl. What happened with your ex was not your fault. It was not because you didn't guard him enough or you didn't make him happy enough.

4. Do not look into images.
- How many times have you met a girl who didn't have the best image in school or at the office, but you get to know the girl and found out she was actually extremely nice? Do not rely on images. Oftentimes, it is far from reality. Do not fear men just because your "supposedly" perfect ex-boyfriend mistreated you.

5. Always have your own set of rules.
- Set your limits on how far you'd go for a guy. It's perfectly ok to give and do everything as long as it's worth it. And it’s worth it if the guy is treating you right.

6. Do not be scared to lose him.
- Don't be scared that he'll break up with you. Once you are afraid of losing him, you easily can be taken advantage. Be strong and if something is unacceptable, do not accept it and speak up.

7. Avoid calling your guy.
- It’' a guy thing. The relationship will definitely be better if it's the guy who's calling, not the girl. He will get tired of you if you keep on calling. He will lose interest and challenge. More so, he will get annoyed. But it's a girl thing also that your fingers get too itchy until you dial his number. But avoid as much as possible. Call only if really needed (like checking if your suspicions are reasonable).

8. There is a guy who will value you.
- There is a guy out there who can make you feel valued, appreciated, and loved. And I mean, not just during your first few weeks together. So don't lose hope. Don't settle for a lesbian if you are not attracted to women. There is a man out there who can love you like a girl can.
Also, do not believe him when he says it's just the way he really is. He's not the sweet or expressive-type. Remember during your first few weeks together? Where has that sweet guy gone? He simply is not that into you anymore.

9. Always be the only one, no matter what.
- Do not ever fall for a guy who has another girl, be it his wife, girlfriend, or any girl that he says he just can't get rid of for whatever reason. If you truly believe that he loves you and for some reason, he can't leave or let go of another girl, then you are no different from any ordinary mistress.

10. He must respect you.
- No matter how long the relationship has been, he should always show respect towards you.

11. If he fooled you, end it.
- Philandering once is enough. You can never trust nor respect the person again.

12. Never start a relationship the wrong way.
- Do not steal another girl's man, for whatever reason. Nor should you enter a relationship for the wrong reasons (loneliness, on the rebound, getting back at your ex, man-dependency, etc.) it is bound not to last. You will only end up wasting more years of your life.

13. Do not force yourself into a relationship.
- Do not get into a relationship just because your friends are getting impatient with your dating escapades and the one hasn't come yet. Do not choose who to say yes to based on superficial things like money, looks, cars, etc.. If you are even thinking of these things, you have not fallen in love yet.

14. Do not settle.
- If you are not happy anymore with your relationship, break up instantly. He will not stay with you forever no matter how upright he might seem to be. Eventually, he will also want love and happiness in his life.

15. A relationship has to have love.
- Love is the only thing that will push you to give your efforts into making the relationship work. And believe me, keeping a relationship requires genuine efforts of both parties.

16. Don't be afraid to be single.
- It's fun to be single, try it. You can go out whenever and wherever you want. You are free. You can date whomever you want and you get to go out for free! Do not get a boyfriend just for the sake of having one. Do not settle.

17. Be a good girl.
- Be a good girl to attract a good guy. Enter the relationship with sincere intentions. Take the guy and the relationship seriously with the plan of spending the rest of your life with that person (of course, this is after you had your bit of fun in your younger years). If you compare your flings from your real relationships, you will know that the latter makes you happier and more fulfilled.

18. Love without limits.
- Whether you loved and gave everything or loved but held out for some things, if the relationship ends, you still get hurt. But if you gave your everything, you were happy and you could say that it was worth it. If you didn't give your all, you get hurt for nothing.

19. You will get over him.
- Love is over-stated. Love eventually ends and you are free to love another.

20. Be the one.
- Act like you are the one. Don't be a nagger. Don't hinder his gimmicks. Don't give in to him too easily. Make him treat you as important. Don't be easy. Don't be like every other girl he had in his life.

A man won't let go, if he really loves you.


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FACTS ABOUT GIRLS THAT GUYS SHOULD KNOW

The first thing that you should know is that every girl is different from others only in their appearance. Inside them, they all have the same nature of motherhood and protective influence which has evolved from the time man was born. While men set out to hunt, women stayed back and protected the nest. This is where these feelings and emotions originated from. Apart from that, you must also remember that every girl, each and every single one of them, just wants to feel special, especially in relationships.


• Girls absolutely hate it when they are lied to. So if you must do so, ensure that you never ever get caught. Whether the lie is about her appearance, your compatibility, your ex-girlfriend or her family, tread these waters with caution. For if you get caught, there will be no escape.

• Girls always consider actions greater than words. Even if, they wont accept it. So if you really wish to impress her, or get off the hook for something, do something that shows her how you feel, rather than simply talking about it.

• One of the most interesting facts about girls is that they are all big drama queens. This may be something that is beyond your realm of understanding, but be patient and know that every girl will make a big deal about petty things. In their eyes this is not wrong, because they simply thrive on conflict.

• Understand that girls are regular victims of PMS, and no matter how much we try to understand this, we never will. This is just the way it is, and the sooner we come to terms with this, the better it will be. You can also try taking one of our relationship quizzes for men to see if you can make the cut.

• Get used to apologizing, because whether you did something wrong or not, you will always be the one apologizing. Girls love that, and they cannot stand guys who do not know how to apologize. Practice your apologies in front of the mirror everyday, and you will thank me later.

• Understand that girls are built differently, and they are absolutely not interested in fast cars and monster trucks and the like. This is one of the primary facts about girls every guy should know.

• Girls are very self-conscious by nature, and the sooner you can accept that, the better. They will always look at themselves in front of the mirror because they can't help it. Do not deride them for this, or they will drop you like a hot potato. This guide to understanding women in relationships will also prove useful to you.

• A girl will always think she looks fat, no matter what. You have to comfort her and convince her otherwise. This goes hand in hand with their self-conscious nature so you better get used to it.

• Never ever fool around with a friend or relative of a girl whom you're with. Girls love to talk about the randomest of things, so you will be caught sooner or later. The wonderfully named Mr. Woods couldn't escape this predicament, so how can you.

• Speaking of which, girls love to gossip. This is the only way they can entertain themselves when they are together. Out of all the facts about girls that guys should know, this is probably the most well known already.

• When it comes to gifts, something meaningful and thoughtful is far more important than its price. Sure, something expensive wont hurt, but girls are absolute suckers for mushy and thoughtful gifts. So get to work and start thinking of things that are important to her.

• If you are out with your friends, she wants them to see how involved you'll are. She will kiss you in front of them, and make you feel like an embarrassed jelly bean. Your friends may laugh at you, but they’re just jealous. Learn to reciprocate these feelings.

• On the other hand, when you are out with her girlfriends, it's best to keep your hands to yourself. The last thing she wants is to feel tied down by you, and you need to act tactfully in such a situation.

• Always remember all those damn dates and birthdays. This is important to them, and if you forget, your stock will plummet drastically. Store it in your phone, or stick your wall with post-its, but just remember them no matter what. Most guys are not aware about these facts on girls, and ultimately pay the price.

• Lastly, always compliment her. One of the most interesting facts about girls is that they love being the center of attention, so what's holding you back. Comment on her hair, her eyes, her dress, her body and everything else that you can think of. The relationship advice for men and relationship advice for guys given here will also help you out.

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